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Are you a Head or Heart person?
This is a general guide to get an idea about what type of person you are.
What makes a Heart person.
- If your father was more demonstrative then your mother.
- If when you feel rejected you come forward, reach out, want to talk, communicate, reconcile.
- If you can not separate Emotions and the Physical body & visa Versa, Immediacy, psychosomatic.
- Paterns of past relationships were heart.
- If your priorities are in this general order
- Relationship / Sex
- Family - Children
- Friends - Hobbies - Interests
- Career - Work - Financial Security
What makes a Head person
- If your mother was more demonstrative then your father.
- Build up a wall. Refuse to talk open up or express their feelings to resolve.
- Time to work it out, what you think.
- Paterns of past relationships was Head person.
- If your priorities are in this general order.
- Career - Work - Financial Security
- Friends - Hobbies - Interests
- Family - Children - Relationship
- Sex
Overview
- A head persons identity comes from their work.
- A heart persons identity comes from their relationships.
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When rejection occurs one person tends to run away while the other holds on and wants to talk. (This behaviour comes from our fight / flight instincts.)
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A head person tries to control the relationship through rejection.
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A heart person tries to dominate the relationship through control.
Do you see yourself as a head or heart person?
Is your partner the opposite?
Do you have issues with your partner?
Seem to be speaking a different language?
The first step is dealing with this communication breakdown you are probaly experiencing, normaly number 1 on the list as to why relationships breakdown.
Looking for answers?
Then read Why Opposities Attract and
Have a look at doing our course to understand more about Head and Heart behaviours